what they call “fucking”: 15 minutes of porno style friction burn with no orgasm, your cervix gets numb from pain from being pounded, 0/10 the worst kind and most common type. he might try to pressure you in to something awfully painful like anal and if you don’t act like a porn actress then he’ll be all like “but other women like it” and treat you like you’re an alien for not pretending to cum when he slaps his dick on your face
plain ol’ “having sex”: he goes down on you either before or after, satisfying all around, pretty standard and decent, 7/10 would do again, the best you can expect from most “good” men
the one men don’t talk about “making love”: the best type of sex, extremely passionate, lots of heat, 50/10, doesn’t even necessarily involve PiV intercourse you could just be switching off going down on each other or usin fingers, but if PiV is involved then it’s very sensual and there’s no friction burn or jack hammer cervix pounding, goes on for hours, doesn’t stop when someone cums, cumming multiple times, lots of eye contact, lots of making out, fully comfortable with each other, you might even start having an intimate conversation in the middle or laugh together, think about it for years and yer heart melts as much as ur vag gets wet thinkin about it
